My hair feels llike carpet...?

My hair is naturally really curly. and i have been straightening it every other day for seceral years. so, after bleaching my bangs several times, and dying it blue and purple several times a month, i decuded to chemically relax my hair. and so now all he colors were burned out of my hair, and the blonde that is in my bangs started falling out. but right now it feels like rough carpet our extremely dry cut grass if you know what im talking abiut. PLEASE HELP!!!